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Use Past Mistakes To Build A New Success Mindset

Use Past Mistakes To Build A New Success Mindset

Use Past Mistakes To Build A New Success Mindset

Every single decisions matters. Every choice you have made in your life has led you to the point you’re at now.

And when I say that you are probably thinking of all those big choices you made. The choice to go into a certain career for instance, the choice to move to a certain part of town and the choice to marry a certain person. Change any of those pivotal moments and everything would be different.

But what about those smaller choices? And what about the choices you make all the time, simply through inaction. When you choose not to look for other work, when you choose not to challenge the system.

And when you choose to ignore the nagging voice inside that is telling you: there’s more to life than this.

It’s scary stuff because it means that no moment in your life is inconsequential. But it’s also incredibly liberating – right now, you have a million choices open to you and you can take any of them. But how to know what to do?

Make A Map Of Failure

If there’s anything you’re unhappy with in your life, then chances are that you got there by making certain choices and decisions. These are your failures, and you are now bearing those scars in your daily life.

Many of us will accept our lot in life and accept these mistakes and thus continue to live a life less satisfying.

But what if we change this approach? What if instead, we take those things we’re unhappy with and we vow to learn from them – to not make those mistakes again.

Did you get to the point of being unhappy in your work by not speaking up and going after a raise? By not looking for work elsewhere? By not taking the chance to go after your dream?

Are you unhappy with your financial situation because you chose not to budget? Or because you chose to take out a loan for something you didn’t need – something that didn’t help you on your path to success?

Don’t feel bad about these mistakes – just recognize them for what they are. And knowing that, use the opportunity to head out there and really make a difference – to embrace the life that you want.

Next time the opportunity comes up – take it. And don’t fail to speak up: start telling people what you want. Want to fix your finances? Come up with a budget and stick to it.

It’s not too late, if you are able to learn from those mistakes!

Use Your Daily Goals To Help Develop A Success Mindset

We have all heard of setting goals to get ahead in life; it is espoused by pretty much every self-help or personal development guru out there.

And goals are important as they act as a destination that you are working towards. If you don’t do that, you can wander through life aimlessly and wonder why you haven’t achieved anything!

So, with that being said, what is your goal in life?

For some it is to get into shape. For some it is to get rich. For others, it is to see the world.

There is no right or wrong answer to the question because what is important for one person will be unimportant for another.

Now what is your daily goal?

This is a very different concept but actually the daily goal is far more important than the overarching goal – at least if you really want to achieve the things that you’re dreaming of. And why is that?

Goals are often too vague

The big issue is that for many of us, our goals are much too broad and much too vague. Even if you have a ‘specific target’ like losing 5 stone in a year, this is still much too broad and vague.

Losing that amount of weight is not entirely within your control. There’s lots you can do to increase or decrease your chances of success and of course you’re mostly responsible… but there are other factors at play here too like your health and like your metabolism.

What’s more, is that having a goal that is that far away can actually make it all too easy to cheat. You know you have a year to lose the weight, so what does it matter if you eat a bit of cake today?

And it makes it easy to get disheartened too – when you get 6 months in and realize that you’re actually heavier than you were before.

Daily goals fix all that

But daily goals fix all that. Start with a vision – a very abstract vision of what you want – and then break that down into the smallest possible steps that you can execute every day or every week.

In the case of losing weight, your goal might be to eat no more than 1,800 calories a day, or to go for at least a 10-minute run every day. That’s a small goal but it’s perfect for sticking to because it is completely within your control.

If you don’t manage to run just that little bit, then you only have yourself to blame. There are no excuses to be made – it’s pass or fail. But at least tomorrow you can try again.

And guess what? If you keep accomplishing those smaller daily goals, they eventually add up. Eventually, you manage that big goal.

Focussing on the small, achievable goal directly in front of you is a great way to get to your destination. They also serve as milestones, and you can look back during your journey to see how far you have come and this can be especially helpful if you are struggling for motivation.

It is important to enjoy the journey and not just the destination or you will be missing out on so much. To know more about enjoying the journey take a look at this premium training here at a very affordable price.

And the same goes for every other type of objective too. The best way to earn money is to build a business a little every day. And the best way to write a novel, is to write a page every night!

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Five Benefits Of Having A Success Mindset

Five Benefits Of Having A Success Mindset

Five Benefits Of Having A Success Mindset

Are you ready to start getting more out of your life and to start getting the results you want? For many of us, success is a very slow process and one that involves a huge amount of work and effort.

For others, it all seems to come very naturally. We all know those people, the ones who seem to have the Midas touch – who seem to strike lucky no matter what they do. What’s their secret?

There are many answers to this question but the biggest thing these people often have going for them is a ‘success mindset’. Once they change the way they think, they can change their fortunes – and the rest just falls into place.

It’s making that cognitive shift that will help you to start making the progress you want to see in your life and moving away from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset. And here are five of the biggest ways that changing your outlook can change your fortunes…

Problems Become Challenges

A success mindset turns problems into challenges.

It means that you stop seeing setbacks as the end of the world and start seeing them as new opportunities to kick ass and take names!

When you take this approach, nothing can stand in your way!

And Failures Become Learning Experiences

You might have this idea in your head that highly successful people can never put a foot wrong or make a mistake. That’s far from the truth though.

However, what makes failure very different for those with a success mindset is that they don’t see it as failure.

They see it as a chance to try again – now with new information!

You Feel Amazing

When you genuinely believe you can do anything, it doesn’t just affect the way you walk around the office and conduct yourself in business.

It changes the way that you present yourself and feel about yourself. In short, you feel awesome.

You Become Instantly More Attractive

What is the secret to attractiveness in both genders? You guessed it: confidence!

People who are confident tend to be more charismatic and positive, so others will naturally tend to gravitate towards them.

You Finally Start Getting What You Want

Finally, when you adopt an open mindset for success and everything that comes with that, you’ll finally start to get what you want.

Better yet, it won’t seem like an impossible task anymore. Once you give off that iron self-belief, others will start to believe in you too.

When you have a clear goal and mission, anything becomes possible. It’s just a matter of time.

Top Five Challenges Of Creating A Success Mindset

‘Create a success mindset’ they say.

‘Just go after the things you want in life’ they say!

‘Take risks’ they say…

It’s a shame it’s not always that easy right? The road to a success mindset is one wrought with obstacles and many of these are things that nobody likes to talk about. It doesn’t fit the narrative. It’s time we addressed them.

Some people seem to be able to rewire their mind with ease, but for others it can be a real struggle to change the way they think from negative to positive.

Here are the top five challenges of creating a success mindset:

You Don’t Know What You Want

This is a surprisingly common issue and one that rarely gets brought up.

How can you go after what makes you happy if you don’t really know what that is? How can you find a goal and stick to it when you fear commitment?

Clarity is key to changing the way you think; once you know what you want, you can put your efforts into achieving it, but it you aren’t really sure about what you want, you will make excuses to procrastinate, and you’ll never make any progress.

Having Weird Aims

Or what if you know what you want in life, but your aims are just too weird or unattainable? What if you don’t want to start a business, travel or start a family. What if you want to be an acrobat? And you’re 60?

What if everyone will laugh at you?

I’m not saying that you should restrict yourself, but you need to be realistic.

That being said, if you have a major goal to achieve, try breaking it down so you can reach these smaller goals on the way and enjoy the success journey you are on.

If you want to know more about enjoying the journey, check out this training because it is important to not just enjoy the end goal but also the whole process: Enjoy The Journey

Being Conflicted

Or how about being torn between travelling and settling down with the person you love?

What if your heart is genuinely pulling you in two different directions?

What if going after your dream, means saying goodbye to people you love, or turning your back on the things that made you who you are?

This is where clarity can help, but ultimately you need to decide what is most important to yourself.

Being Honest With Yourself

We are prideful creatures, and our very psychology is wired in such a way as to protect our fragile egos. We don’t want to admit to our failures, and we don’t want to feel like we’re going backward.

And so when we realize that we’re unhappy with what we have in life, it can be very hard for us to be honest and admit that – to ourselves or to others!

And it’s even more difficult to blame the person in the mirror, but the responsibility for your own path in life is ultimately yours!

Responsibility to Others

It’s easy to say that you should take a leap and apologise later but what if people are really relying on you to be mature and stable?

What if your goal is to go travelling but your wife just got pregnant? Yes, there are ways around this too – you can explain how important this is to you and convince her to come with you.

But it won’t always work. And at the end of the day, you’re always going to be giving your child a less stable home.

There are answers to all these problems of course – but just know that the path isn’t as simple as some would have you believe!

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Change Your Mindset To Change Your Life

Change Your Mindset To Change Your Life

Change Your Mindset To Change Your Life

A lot of people claim they know the secret to success. They will claim it is motivation, ambitiousness, positivity, conscientiousness and all sorts of other abstract nouns.

However they are missing the true vital ingredient, the real key that will get you started on the road to success to begin with: desire.

It Comes From Within

It is obvious really, but if you are going to be successful in any area of your life then you need to want to be successful. It does not matter how hard working you are, how much time you spend at work, but if you do not particularly want to climb to the top it just will not happen.

Anything along these lines is a competition essentially, and if you do not truly desire success then you’ll still be going against a whole lot of people who do.

You cannot really have motivation without desire, but even if you could, where would you be directing that motivation? It is desire that will help you keep your eye on the prize and act as the motivator as you put in more time after work or come up with complex plans on how to woo the guy/gal of your dreams.

And the more you desire something the more you’ll work to get it. And as you do you’ll find that you subconsciously even help to navigate through the mire of challenges and that the world just kind of steps out of the way.

Of course not all desire will work. Firstly your desire needs to be realistic, and secondly your desire needs to be concrete. A desire to fly for example probably is only going to end with disappointment unless you are from Krypton, and a desire to ‘be more successful’ is an abstract aim that’s really quite subjective.

How To Find Your Desire

Some people though do not seem to have any desire at all however, and these people can be quite aimless in their lives. They aren’t going to progress because they do not know how they want to progress and they do not know what they want from life. The thing is though, everyone has something they want, it is just a matter of finding out what it is.

If you are struggling to know what your desire is, then think of your life now as it is. Now think of how it could be improved. Now think of how your life would look if you had everything the way you want it. That’s pretty desirable right?

Maybe you have got a big house and kids, or a small house and great artistic job, or you are a movie star, or a high flying businessman. Now you know what your desires are, write them down and break them down into smaller steps and priorities. Suddenly you have direction and motivation. So, you can now see the power of changing your mindset, so let’s look at 5 ways you can grow a positive mindset…

Top Five Tips For Achieving A Success Mindset

Want to start changing your life? Then you need to change yourself. You are in the position you’re in right now because you chose to be there.

You might not realize that you chose it but even through your inaction, you in fact did. The job you have right now, your financial circumstances and nearly every other aspect of your life is a matter of choice – and if you wanted to, you could go out there and change everything today. You just need to take action!

But if you really want to make a change and you want to start by changing your fixed mindset, how do you know where to start? What is it you need to change in order to achieve a growth mindset? Here are five top tips that will help make that transformation much easier…

Find Your Own Path

Most of us have a clear idea of what success means but this is an idea that we have inherited from our schools and our parents.

This is not really our version of success and as such, it’s not going to be what we’re passionate about and it won’t give us that fire and drive to wake up early in the morning to work on our projects.

In order to be truly successful, you need to find your own path and that is going to mean forgetting what others think and finding what makes you happy.

Take Risks

Learning to take risks is a difficult step but if you’re going to achieve the things you really want in life, you need to take the leap sometimes.

Learn to take measured, calculated risks.

And the key is that they are calculated risks; don’t become overzealous when risk taking, but you need to be less cautions.

You know what they say “Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”

Be Prepared To Fail

Taking risks means being prepared to fail. In this instance, you need to learn how to manage failure and take it on the chin. Pick up the pieces and go again for round two!

So many people are paralysed by fear of failure, but surely it is worse to have never tried to live your best life and achieve your dreams.

Try reframing failure as a learning process and always “fail forward” on your way to success.

Find The ‘Essence’ Of What Drives You

Sometimes success doesn’t come in the form we expect. Sometimes we don’t know what we need to be happy.

That’s why it can be useful to break down our dreams to their essence. What is it about that idea that appeals to you and what’s the easiest way to get there?

Some people will call this finding your reason why, but no matter what you call it, you need to find it.

By the way, if you want to know more about this, take a look at this great training here: Finding Your Why

Invest In Yourself

Knowing how important that passion is to you, you now need to invest in yourself and be willing to spend both time and money on everything from your appearance to your skill set.

There is no better investment that investing in you!

Find books, courses, coaches that can move you forward. Of course you need to do your due diligence to ensure you aren’t throwing money away, but anything that helps you to reach your goals shouldn’t be seen as an expense, but rather an investment.

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Building A Strong Success Mindset Pt 4

Building A Strong Success Mindset Pt 4

Building A Strong Success Mindset Pt 4

In the first post in this success mindset for entrepreneurs series, you learnt about the importance of believing in yourself and you can find that post here

And, in the second post you learnt about testing your ideas to ensure that they are worthy, and that post is here

And in the third post you learnt about learning from your mistakes, and that post is here

In this final part of the series, we will look at focusing on your customers and building a team around you to help you to have the success you desire.

Focus On Your Customers

The customer is always right. That’s a truism of customer service, but it’s just as important when planning for success.

In the last chapter, you learned that one of the main reasons start-ups fail is because they fail to focus on the customer. But you’re not going to make that mistake!

Why You Should Focus On What Customers Want/Need

Your customers are the life’s blood of your business. If they’re not happy, your business will fail. It’s that simple.

We’ve already talked about market research and testing. Even after you’ve tested everything, though, you still need to focus on your customers.

It doesn’t matter what critics of your company and products say. If your customers are happy and satisfied, you’ll make money.

Think about James Carville’s famous sign during Bill Clinton’s presidential campaign. It read, “It’s the economy, stupid.” It was a reminder that the campaign’s voters – its customers – were worried about the economy. Keeping their focus on the community helped make the campaign a winning one.

Creating A Great Start-To-Finish Experience

A customer’s experience with you starts when they first learn about your company or product and continues for as long as they use your product.

When you think about the customer experience, think through every step of the experience. Offer stellar content, an easy buying process, and excellent support.

Customers who’ve received top-notch support remember it. They’ll mention it to their friends.

Tip: Use Perkzilla to grow your audience. It’s a unique rewards platform you can leverage to grow your audience, get more social love, and increase your sales.

Providing Value

What’s the secret to attracting customers? VALUE.

Before anybody spends their money on your product, they’re going to want to know that it’ll deliver on its promises. You can make them feel better about that by offering clear value to them even before they buy.

That means creating and delivering interesting, informative, relevant, and actionable content that’ll help you engage their attention.

Delivering value triggers a mental glitch called Reciprocity. When you give customer something for free – even if it’s information – they’re more likely to feel obligated to buy from you.

Of course, value must come from your product as well. It includes the quality of the product, its usefulness, its longevity, and its price.

Becoming An Authority

People look up to authority figures. You can prove your authority by doing what we just talked about – delivering value to your customers.

But authority is more than that. It’s about showing that you’re a reliable and knowledgeable source of information. On social media, it means delivering original content that’s informative and actionable. It may also mean curating content from industry publications and authorities and sharing it with your own take on the topic.

One way to establish yourself as an authority is to offer a lead magnet to grow your list. A lead magnet can be a short eBook, a tip sheet, a template, or anything else that demonstrates your knowledge.

Tip: Use PLR (Private Label Rights) to get high-quality lead magnets you can repurpose to attract your target audience, grow your list, and generate leads.

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Customer Support

Customer support starts when a customer first visits your website. You should think about what kind of support your customers need and how you’ll deliver it.

In the old days, support was mostly in person or on the phone. Today, you may want to think about:

  • Email support
  • Chat support
  • Chatbots
  • Self-service options
  • FAQ
  • Social media support

You’ll need to test various options to figure out what’ll work for your audience. Remember that a lot of companies are merging social media with support and consider doing the same.

Next, we’ll talk about the fifth and final step to success: building your success team!

Building Your Success Team

If you want to be successful, you can’t go it alone. There’s a temptation to do that, of course. Wearing every possible hat might save you a little money. But in the end, it’ll cost you more in time (and sanity) than the alternative.

Why You Shouldn’t Try To Do Everything

You might have a lot of skills. Perhaps you’re a great innovator with excellent communication skills. Maybe you’ve dabbled in accounting and flirted with marketing.

No matter how good you are, you’re not equally good at everything. If you try to do the things you’re not so great at, you might wind up settling for a less-than-perfect result.

A lot of entrepreneurs do everything at first. You might need to. But once you’ve established your business and product, it’s a good idea to branch out and get some help.

Not only will you be able to do a better job at the things that ONLY you can do, you’ll also be able to live a balanced and productive life – and that’s part of success.

Tips For Building A Team

The idea of building a team can be an intimidating one, particularly if you’re thinking that you need to hire people and deal with taxes and insurance.

The good news is that you don’t need to do those things unless you want to. Lots of companies outsource tasks as needed without hiring full-time or even part-time people.

The first step is deciding who you need on your team. Are you struggling to keep up with social media? You may want to outsource it to someone with more experience. Perhaps you need a bookkeeper to come in once a week to pay bills. Maybe you need a payroll service.

You may decide to hire someone full time. Keep in mind, though, that there are plenty of tasks you can outsource to freelancers. Using sites like Upwork makes it easy to find virtual assistants and team members.

The Importance Of Delegation

How do you know what to do yourself and what to delegate? Delegation is an essential skill. You know you can’t do everything, but it can be difficult to let go of the things you’re accustomed to doing even when you have help.

Here are some questions to help you learn how to delegate. About each task, ask:

  • Can I teach someone else to do it?
  • Is there anything that I’m unable to teach?
  • Is my personal input required?
  • Do I have someone on my team who’s capable of learning how to do it?

Unless the task absolutely requires your input and skills, it should be open to delegation. Yes, you’ll need to spend some time training your staff or freelancers to do the task to your standards. You’ll probably end up fielding a few questions and possibly, correcting a few mistakes.

There’s nothing wrong with you keeping key tasks to yourself, but your goal should be to maximize efficiency while also prioritizing accuracy.

It can also be helpful to take an inventory of your team’s skills. They might have abilities you don’t know about yet!

As you can appreciate, changing the way you think can have a huge impact on your life, and if you want to know more about developing an inspirational mindset for success, please click on the featured resource below for a free Strong Mindset report; download, read it and take action 😊

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Building A Strong Success Mindset

Building A Strong Success Mindset Pt 3

Building A Strong Success Mindset Pt 3

In the first post in this series, you learnt about the importance of believing in yourself and you can find that post here

And, in the second post you learnt about testing your ideas to ensure that they are worthy, and that post is here

Next, we will look at the importance of learning from your mistakes. This is a key skill to master because mistakes can quickly paralyse you and stop any momentum you had going.

What’s Your Inner Critic Saying About You?

The key to success is taking that annoying, critical voice in your head and turning it into something positive. That might seem impossible, but I promise – you can do it. It all starts with listening to that little voice.

You see, a lot of times you might simply dismiss it – or let it stop you without really listening to it.

Today, I want you to listen. REALLY listen. And then, write down what that little voice says to you. It might be awful. It might tell you that you’re a failure or that your goals are out of reach.

It might even tell you that you’re stupid. Write it down. Don’t read it over again. Just record it and put it away. You’ll probably think about it during the day but try not to dwell on it.

Understanding Your Inner Critic

Are you ready to get to the heart of what your inner critic is trying to tell you?

Pull out that notebook from yesterday and read over what you wrote. Think about how you felt and what immediately came to mind.

I’m willing to bet it’s negative. Maybe even hurtful.

The important thing to remember is that this voice is part of you. You can’t escape it, but you can certainly control how you respond to it and how it affects your ability to be successful.

Ultimately, it’s trying to protect you – even though it might not seem like it a lot of the time.

Your job today is to look at what that voice says and figure out what it really MEANS.

For example, if your inner critic tells you that you shouldn’t try to start a business because you’ll fail, there are two ways to look at it:

  1. Your inner critic has no faith in your ability or skills, and wants you to give up;

or –

  1. Your inner critic is really consumed with the fear of failure and wants to protect you.

Which of those two do you think is the most likely? I’ll save you the suspense. It’s the second one.

Take a minute and figure out the subtext of what your inner critic is saying. Why do you really feel this way?

How are these thoughts and feelings impacting your business? And more importantly, how can you mute that critic so you can focus on your strengths and what you bring to the table?

Learning From Your Mistakes

Every cloud has a silver lining – and so does every mistake. It’s a bit cliché to say that mistakes are learning opportunities, but the fact that it’s a common saying doesn’t make it untrue.

Just like failure, mistakes show us who we are. We all make them. It’s what you do with them that marks the difference between success and failure.

Why Start-Ups Fail

It’s not easy to get a start-up off the ground. When start-ups fail, it can be for any one of several reasons. Here are some of the most common:

  • Not focusing on customers and solving their problems
  • Lack of focus
  • Scaling too quickly
  • Not building a success team

We’ve already talked about focusing on customers. If you do that, you’ll be halfway to success because you won’t be thinking about yourself, you’ll be thinking about your audience.

Focus problems happen when you try to do too many things at once. Simplifying goals on focusing on one product or idea will help keep your eyes on the prize.

Scaling is something that can send any entrepreneur into a tailspin. Allow your business to grow organically and scale only when you’re ready.

We’ll talk about how to build a success team later – but suffice to say, you can’t do everything yourself!

Reframing Mistakes as Opportunities

Nobody likes making mistakes. It’s no fun to be wrong. But every successful entrepreneur needs to get comfortable with it – and learn to see mistakes as opportunities.

What happens when you mess up? If you pay attention, you can learn something! Everything you learn now will help you with your next goal.

When you make a mistake, take a deep breath and ask:

What can I learn from this?

Then, once you’ve identified it, use the lesson to create your next opportunity. Once you get in the habit of doing it, it’ll be easy.

Tightening Goals

We already talked about SMART goals. When you don’t achieve a goal, it’s easy to feel disheartened. Often, it’s just a sign that your goal was too big.

If you’ve ever made a to-do list, you may have noticed how gratifying it is to cross out the items on it. Some people even put simple things on their lists because they know they’ll be able to complete them quickly.

When you set goals for yourself, take every long-term goal and break it down into the smallest possible steps. Focus on what you want and narrow your goals to help you achieve it. You’ll be far more likely to get where you want to go if you have tight, achievable goals.

How To Find The Lessons In Experiences

Everything you experience is a lesson. When you make a mistake or fail, it’s natural to be upset.

Take time to be upset. But then, step back. Ask what you did wrong, and what you would do differently next time.

If you lack information, go find it. Read, study, talk to other people in your industry – and then take what you’ve learned to heart and use it in the future.

Split Testing

One of the best ways to refine your goals and fine-tune your products is with split testing. Split testing involves taking content or an ad campaign and testing different versions until you get the best results.

The key to split testing is testing only one element at a time. Not satisfied with your Facebook ad? Test two different headlines, choose the one that performs better, and then split test your call to action.

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Creating Your Plan B

It’s always a good idea to have a Plan B. If your first idea doesn’t work, what will you try next?

There’s no shame in having a back-up plan. In fact, part of the reason that successful people become successful is that they have a back-up plan!

Coming up next, we’ll talk about how to keep focused on your customers, so you don’t get off track, so until next time…

As you can appreciate, changing the way you think can have a huge impact on your life, and if you want to know more about developing an inspirational mindset for success, please click on the featured resource below for a free Strong Mindset report; download, read it and take action 😊

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