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Is Having A Money Mindset Necessary To Be Successful?

Is Having A Money Mindset Necessary To Be Successful?

Is Having A Money Mindset Necessary To Be Successful?

Anyone can make money. You can post an offer in your supermarket for services you are willing to provide. You can post offers on Craigslist to sell your services. You can sell old merchandise on eBay and other online sellers. You can get a part time job. There are many other ways people can make money. The question is, why do you even need a money mindset if making money is easy?

While the dynamics of making money may be easy, if you are not taking the right steps, you won’t be making enough for it to be worthwhile. You not only want to optimize your money-making abilities, but you also want to keep the money that you do make. Further, you want to make it grow in the fastest possible manner and by the most amount. For this, you certainly want to consider taking on a money mindset.

You need to focus your efforts on opportunities that will give you the highest return. Most people aren’t taught how to do this. They learn it by trial-and-error. Which means, they will likely do the wrong things that will cost them a lot of money. That money took a long time to make.

As people age, they have less time to recoup the losses. It’s also tougher to get jobs when you get older. Companies would rather pay a younger person a lot less money even if they need to be trained.

Learning about the right approaches to money management can counter all of these problems. You can still use the methods discussed in the first paragraph to earn money for yourself, but you want to take that money and get them earning more for you.

Some people will strike it lucky. They will win the lottery, or they create an app that sells for millions of dollars. Can you depend on either of these? Are you going to come into money from a long-lost relative who passed away? Again, this is not something you should count on (unless you know for sure).

Even those “lucky” people who come into money somehow, wind up losing it all because they don’t have a money mindset. Time after time, you read about lottery winners who are broke. The biggest problem for them is all the relatives and friends that suddenly come into the picture. Also, spouses have differences of opinion on how this money should be spent.

Is Your Money Mindset Setting You Up For Failure?

People want to make money. You see the lavish lifestyles of celebrities and other famous people and wish you could have the same lifestyle yourself. But, is your drive for money blinding you to what is truly important in your life?

It is often said that if you do something you love, the money will follow. There seems to be something to this because you will approach whatever you love with passion. You’ll get better at it to the point where you are better than everyone else, or at least that is what you strive.

On the other hand, if making money is your driving force, how will you accomplish that? You will simply chase the dollar from one job to the next or from one opportunity to the next. You will get seduced by false offers of riches. Over time, you will look back and see that not much has been accomplished.

You may be successful in the short term of getting that extra dollar from a new job or squeezing a quick buck from your business. But, you will constantly be in search for more money. You could even put yourself into a position where you can’t handle the new job because you lack the necessary experience.

In other words, you didn’t give your previous level enough time to develop a foundation. You jumped ahead, and now you are unclear what to do. It’s a concept known as the Peter Principle, named after the person who came up with the idea, Peter Drucker.

Money isn’t as important as many try to make it out to be. For instance, what good is having a high-paying job when you have to work 80-90 hours a week? What kind of life is that? Many people who do this, look back at their lives and wonder why they did it.

While they may have a lot of money when they get older, they likely don’t have anyone to share it with. Another possibility is the heavy workload to obtain that wealth gets them to an early grave. The money they earned is useless to them if that happens.

If you are happy with what you are doing, money becomes a secondary priority. People do need money to live, and you shouldn’t settle to work for less than you are worth. But, when you can balance a decent amount of money with doing something that you enjoy, it will bring a whole bunch of satisfaction into your life.

Can A Financial Advisor Help You Develop A Money Mindset?

Choosing someone to manage your finances for you is a big step. Who do you trust and how good are they? If you are lucky to find the right financial advisor, will it help develop your money mindset?

The advantage of having an advisor is they are not emotionally attached to your money. The disadvantage is they are not emotionally attached to your money. It is a double-edged sword and one that you have to monitor very carefully. Too many people make the mistake of keeping an advisor employed even when they are not doing as well as expected.

Ask potential advisors a lot of questions before deciding. If they are not transparent about how they are going to manage your money, it’s probably best to move on to someone else. They should have no problem making their plans for your money known. It’s important to remember it is your money.

This brings up an important point. You are ultimately responsible for the decisions made by any advisor you choose. While they may not be good and end up losing money on your account, you chose them, to begin with. This is why it’s crucial to pick a good advisor. Try to find people you trust who are happy with advisors they have used. Referrals from people you know are the best type of referrals.

When using a financial advisor, be careful not to remove yourself from the process. This is common and should be avoided. If this does happen, then you won’t be adopting a money mindset by using an advisor. You need to hold them accountable which means you need to know what they are doing.

On the other hand, you don’t want to micromanage your financial advisor. Good advisors are well trained and know the ins and outs of managing money. If you are constantly calling them to find out why a particular stock or bond is not doing as expected, you are not being fair to your advisor.

Of course, if they set up the plan with one expectation for your entire portfolio and it is not doing what you agreed upon, you need to be critical with the advisor.

You need to be comfortable with the risk the advisor is going to take with your money. Hopefully, they interviewed you about your risk profile and set up a plan with this in mind. It cannot be overstated that it is your money, and you are responsible.

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How To Drive Free Traffic To Your Blog

How To Drive Free Traffic To Your Blog

How To Drive Free Traffic To Your Blog

Ahh… everybody loves the sound of the word, “Free!”

In this case, free traffic means that you’re not spending money on paid advertising. However, it’s not entirely free, since almost all methods of free traffic require an investment of your time. Since time is money, you’re paying for it even if not a cent leaves your pocket.

You also have far less control over free traffic; if you are paying for traffic, you can switch it on and off at a moments notice, whereas with free traffic, you have to wait patiently for the traffic to start coming.

Now that we’ve established that time is currency, you’ll realize that to drive ‘free’ traffic, you’ll need to get the most mileage from your efforts. Below, you’ll find a few free methods to drive traffic.

These have been proven to work and yield excellent results. Do note that when trying out any traffic generation method, it’s best to stick with it until you see results. Pick one method, focus on it and go all out.

Do not spread your efforts over several different methods. Your results will be sporadic and elusive if you take this approach.


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Social Media Platforms

Social media platforms are excellent places to siphon traffic from. Basically, you’ll be trying to leverage these sites to drive traffic to your own blog.

If you’re using YouTube, your videos and channel will have links in the description pointing curious viewers to your blog.

If you’re using Pinterest, the images will be linked to your blog posts or landing page.

If you’re using Facebook groups/pages, you’ll have posts and links pointing back to your blog.

You get the idea by now. You’ll have several links pointing back to your blog to get curious readers/visitors on to your own web property. Ideally, you should have a landing page with an attractive and valuable giveaway product that they can download/watch after they’ve signed up to be on your list.

Build a profile for your blog on the different social media platforms and tap into the massive amounts of traffic there.

Once again, pick just one social media platform and focus on it. This is a mistake that many novices make; they try to be everywhere all at once, but this doesn’t really work. Pick one platform and go all in until you have completely mastered it and are seeing results; only then should you think about trying another platform.

Search Engine Optimization (SEO)

This is a HUGE topic in the make money online niche. Getting ranked organically for highly searched keywords is one of the best ways to drive traffic to your site. The bugbear here is that SEO takes time, and you must have a solid knowledge of it.

Do your keyword research thoroughly and focus on ranking for the easier ‘lower hanging fruit’ keywords. Then you can move on to the more difficult keywords and try ranking for those.

You’ll need to know on-page optimization… and also off-page optimization such as how to build external links and so on. Study SEO well and apply it. It’s a wonderful way to generate free traffic.

But don’t just write posts for the search engines! People want to read your posts and find them engaging, informative and useful. If you write to satisfy the search engines, you can end up stuffing keywords and the whole article simply doesn’t read well for a human.

So, first and foremost, write for your audience, and optimise later.

Guest Posting

This is a method where you create unique content that you’ll give away for free to a relevant site in your niche. You’ll need to approach the site owners with your offer and all you’ll ask for in return is for a backlink to your blog.

You’ll want to pick a site that’s popular, but NOT inundated with posts daily. One or two posts a day is fine. This will give visitors time to read your guest post and check out your blog. If there are too many new posts constantly appearing on the site, your guest post will be drowned out.

This is an old-school method but don’t discount it. You can easily get your post in front of a lot of eyeballs, and if you do a good job, you can get a lot of visitors to your site.

Email Marketing

Use a software like Thrive Leads or Conversion Gorilla to create sticky banners, scroll mats, pop ups, etc. to capture the email addresses of visitors to your blog and add them to your autoresponder of choice (I recommend Active Campaign)

Once they’re on your list, you can email them whenever you have a new blog post and this will drive traffic to your blog.

Exceptional Content

They often say that content is king. The truth is that GOOD content is what matters. The content on your blog should be informative, entertaining, and memorable.

Use catchy titles and headlines. Have internal links in your blog posts so that you increase the ‘stickiness’ of your blog and readers keep clicking on links to learn more from you. This will reduce the bounce rate of your blog and is a good sign to Google that your site is ‘worthy’.

Posting content on a consistent basis will ensure that your blog is fresh and readers always have something new to look forward to. This will encourage repeat visits.

While these pointers are not directly linked to driving traffic, they’re crucial to building your reputation and making you look like an authority in your niche. When you appear to be a serious player in the scene, your blog’s reputation will drive its own traffic.

Now that you know a few ways to drive traffic to your site, you just need to apply them. There are bloggers who have built a six-figure income just by driving traffic from Pinterest to their site.

This is just one platform. Now imagine if you had several working for you. The possibilities are endless. Choose one method and get started with it as soon as you can. Then move on to the next… and the next… and the next.

That’s free traffic generation in a nutshell.

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Is Negativity Affecting Your Friendships?

Is Negativity Affecting Your Friendships?

Is Negativity Affecting Your Friendships?

You will find a lot of information online about how to eliminate negative friendships from your life. However, what if the source of negativity is coming from you?

It isn’t always easy to recognize when you are being negative. Some people have no idea how their negativity is impacting others. So, if your friendships have been suffering lately and you aren’t sure why, it could be down to your own mindset.

Here, we’ll look at how your own negativity could be affecting your friendships and what you can do about it.

Are You A Negative Friend?

It isn’t always easy to identify negativity in ourselves. Many people are unaware that they are projecting negativity onto others. So, how can you identify if you are a negative friend? Here’s a few signs to look out for:

  • You find it hard keeping friends
  • You make plans knowing you’ll cancel them
  • You don’t check in first or see how your friends are doing
  • Most conversations are about you
  • They don’t come to you for emotional support

Now, some of these signs may not be down to your own negativity. For example, you may not check in first with your friends because it used to always be you initiating contact. In that case, you wouldn’t necessarily be a negative friend.

Many people find it hard to keep friends. However, if you generally find it easy to make friends and not keep them, there may be a problem. Assess your friendships, including those from the past. Is there a pattern and could it be down to your negativity?

Life gets busy and it isn’t always easy to keep in touch with friends. However, if you literally never contact anyone first, this is a sign you are a negative friend. Remember, friendships are a two-way street. Your friends need to know you care about them too.

Similarly, if you make plans knowing you’ll cancel them, and make all conversations about you, these are also negative friend traits.

The Impact Negativity Has On Friendships

So, why is it important to be a more positive friend? The main one is that negativity can literally kill friendships. Nobody wants to be around somebody who is constantly negative. It brings down their mood, leading them to feel more depressed or drained after they have been around you.

Another way negativity impacts friendships, is that it is bad for the heart. Studies have shown that negative friendships affect our heart health. So, you could unintentionally be causing your friends health issues with your constant negativity. These are just some of the problems you can cause if you are a negative friend.

When you bring negativity into your friendships, you won’t have strong relationships. Healthy friendships are important for our health and wellbeing. So, if you do identify as a negative friend, now’s the time to start working on adjusting your mindset. It might not be easy; but, doing so will ensure you have much healthier and happier friendships.

Are Emotional Vampires Draining You Dry?

Is your energy constantly being drained by emotional vampires? The people around us affect how we feel and view the world. There are plenty of reasons why some people may drain your energy more than others. You could be dealing with a narcissist, or someone who complains most of the time.

If you have an emotional vampire draining you dry, it’s time to start protecting your energy. Below, you’ll discover how to recognize the signs of an emotional vampire, and the best ways to protect your energy.

Understanding The Different Types Of Emotional Vampires

Emotional vampires come in a variety of forms. They include:

  • Victims
  • Narcissists
  • Constant talkers
  • Controllers
  • Drama queens

Each type of emotional vampire will leave you feeling tired and deflated after being in their company. Victim emotional vampires are the people who always play the victim, even when they are the perpetrator. Narcissists are only interested in their own thoughts and feelings, while constant talkers drain your mental energy.

Most of us know at least one type of emotional vampire in our lives. Not sure how to identify them? There are a few signs to watch out for…

Tell-Tale Signs Of An Emotional Vampire

There are several tell-tale signs that can help you decide if you’re dealing with an emotional vampire. The main signs to watch out for include:

  • You feel mentally exhausted after spending time with them.
  • You feel depressed or anxious around them.
  • You feel like they are putting you down.
  • You turn to comfort eating or drinking alcohol after being around them.

Everyone who encounters an emotional vampire will feel at least one of the things above. You basically don’t feel great when you spend time with them.

Protecting Your Energy

If you are dealing with an emotional vampire, how can you stop them from draining your energy? The good news is there are strategies you can use to deal with them.

First, if you can, you should distance yourself from the person. Avoiding being around an emotional vampire is the best way to stop them negatively impacting you. However, this isn’t always possible.

If you can’t distance yourself, make sure you are practicing self-care. Taking care of yourself will allow you to feel more confident to set healthy boundaries. You will naturally be more assertive and protective over your time.

So, if you don’t already, set aside time every day to focus on you. Pamper yourself, take care of your own needs first, and watch how your energy and tolerance changes for negative people.

If you are really struggling to handle an emotional vampire in your life, you can also turn to therapy. Seeking help from a professional will enable you to understand why you can’t deal with the problem, as well as provide solutions that can help.

Emotional vampires are everywhere today. It isn’t always possible to get away from them immediately, but there are things you can do in the meantime to protect yourself and your energy.

How Negativity Affects Your Job

When you have a negative mindset, it’s going to affect every aspect of your life. Your energy impacts those around you. So, if you bring a negative energy into the workplace, it’s going to have several repercussions.

Here, you’ll discover how negativity affects your job. You will also see how you can start to eliminate your own negativity in the workplace.

How Does Negativity Impact Your Job?

There are a lot of ways negativity can impact your job. When you have a negative mindset, it can affect your performance, work relationships, and overall wellbeing.

The trouble with negativity, is that it attracts more negativity. Therefore, if you go into work with a negative attitude, it is going to rub off on your colleagues too. This will lead to a toxic workplace where nobody is happy and stress levels are increased.

As well as impacting the work environment, a negative outlook can also cause issues with performance. You may not apply for new opportunities as they arise, forcing you to miss out on a potentially better job. You will also notice your energy levels aren’t great, and the quality of your work will suffer.

These are just some of the ways negativity can impact your job. So, how can you fix it?

Ways To Become Less Negative At Work

There are ways you can become a more positive person at work. However, it might take quite a lot of effort to overcome your negative thinking. The best ways to combat negativity at work include:

  • Identify the cause
  • Think of something you are thankful for
  • Talk to your boss
  • Distance yourself from negative colleagues

Identifying the cause of your negativity is crucial. There could be numerous reasons why you have a more negative attitude at work. Maybe you keep getting passed over for a promotion, or you are bored of your current role? Identifying the cause enables you to figure out the best ways to combat it.

Whenever you feel yourself slumping into a negative mood, think of something you are thankful for. After all, it’s difficult to remain negative when you are thinking of something positive.

You may also find it useful to talk to your boss if you haven’t already. If you are unhappy with something, let them know. Ask them for a promotion, rather than waiting for one. You could also ask them for further training opportunities and more responsibility.

If you have colleagues who are negative, make sure you distance yourself from them. It could be that others are putting you in a negative mood, so distancing yourself from them will protect your energy and your positivity. If they see you with a more positive outlook, it will also help them to develop one too.

As you can see, there are several ways you can address your negativity in the workplace. Identifying the root cause is the key to finding the right solution. If you are just naturally negative, working on developing a more positive mindset will help. However, this will take time so don’t expect results overnight.

Whatever you want in life will require discipline to achieve and overcoming negative thoughts and self doubt is a small part of this. So, if you want to know more about harnessing the power of self-discipline, then check out the featured resource below for a free report; download, read it and take action 🙂

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8 Steps To Successful Email Marketing

8 Steps To Successful Email Marketing

8 Steps To Successful Email Marketing

Email marketing is a powerful tool when used right converting subscribers to paying customers over time. It allows you an opportunity to easily share what you have to offer in a manner in which the subscriber is receptive, but only when it is done correctly.

Let’s have a look at the 8 steps you should use to enjoy email marketing success.

Determine What Your Goal Is

For your email campaign to be a success you need to know what your actual goal is. This allows you to accurately target and measure the success of your goals along the way.

Here are some examples of goals to consider:

  • Are you successful at alerting customers of new features and products you have to offer?
  • DO you announce upcoming events in a timely manner and do people register for it?
  • DO you send email to get subscribers to also subscribe to your blog and do you measure your conversion rate?

Who Are Your Emails From?

The name and email address that you send your email from needs to remain consistent on every single email you send.

That creates brand recognition, and you are less likely to land in spam.

Try to use a custom email address rather than Gmail e.g. YourName@YourBusinessName.com. It looks more professional too.

Carefully Craft Your Subject Line

Your email subject line needs to be a call to action for your subscriber.

They need to immediately know what action is required of them and why.

Remember you only have 45 characters that are visible so make sure that you use them wisely and your message does not get cut off.

Write The Email Body

Did you know that most people will read an email in under 10 seconds?

Therefore, it is important that you are presenting the most important part of your message at the top of the email.

This is also helpful because it shows as the snippet in the subscribers email program.

Also, make use of bullet points for skim readers.

Make Use Of The Email Signature

Your email signature should match the ‘from’ in the email. You should sign the email and include any other information you think the recipient should have such as your phone number, or perhaps your degree is important, or your web address.

Also include social media details if they are appropriate; the more people interact with you, the more likely they will change from a cold prospect into a customer.

Testing Your Email

It is important that you always test your email on a number of email platforms and on mobile devices, which make up a larger percentage of where email is read.

That way you can make sure that your email is coming through correctly on all platforms.

Most email autoresponders such as Active Campaign will allow you to check what they look like.

Also, sign up for a new campaign yourself with a test email address, to ensure that you receive any welcome emails and any tags are appropriately applied.

Send the Email

Always include the option to view as HTML or text.

This is it! It’s time to send out your email campaign and start to enjoy the benefits.

Don’t make emails too image heavy as they can take a long time to open.

It may be worth testing with long emails, or shorter emails which direct them to read the full article on your blog/website.

This leads onto the final step…

Measure

In order to know if your email campaign is successful you need to measure the click through rate and the unsubscribe rate.

This will help you determine what you need to change or what’s working.

All marketing is driven by the data, and email marketing is no exception.

4 Types Of Emails You Need To Use

If you are running online email marketing campaigns, chances are you are already using the popular newsletter format, which usually are sent out monthly or every couple of weeks.

The trouble is far too many of us stop right there and don’t use any other type of email campaign, and that’s a big mistake!

Let’s look at 4 types of email, other than newsletters, that you can use to connect with your subscribers.

Informational Emails

Informational emails are not very long and generally, they do not require any action by the subscriber.

They are simply there to convey a message and provide information to the recipient.

Examples of informational emails include ‘happy birthday’ messages, course ending reminders, or webinar reminders.

Educational Emails

Educational emails are very popular with recipients because they help to solve some type of problem or answer a question.

You can send educational emails any time you have new content, a popular blog post, or any other educational information that matches your subscribers.

This becomes even easier if you took the time to group your subscribers, because that way you can send the right content to the right people.

Lead Nurturing Emails

This type of email is one of the least used or when it is used it is often used wrongly. It takes a lot of time and effort to take a lead and move them through the entire sales cycle.

By using lead nurturing emails, you able to help that process occur faster and you don’t need to invest a lot of time. You can set up various nurturing campaigns with 7 or 8 nurturing emails in each and then you can simply schedule them to execute over a period of time.

Both 60 and 90 days are popular depending on what your product or service is. These should be short messages that are packed with content rich information and that try to get the lead to respond to your call to action that will lead them to your website.

Promotional Emails

This type of email, if not done right, can find you with a subscriber that will unsubscribe or simply trashing your message. Too many promotional emails and you will annoy your recipient.

The only time you should use this is if you have a new product or service, a special deal going on, or a special event coming up. You should not use this more than a couple of times a month.

What types of emails do you use in your email marketing campaigns? Now you have some new ideas so why not give them a try.

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7 Areas Where You Need To Increase Self-Discipline

7 Areas Where You Need To Increase Self-Discipline

7 Areas Where You Need To Increase Self-Discipline

Building self-discipline is a process that’s never-ending. It doesn’t matter if you’re a monk who is meditating on a mountaintop or the CEO or a multinational corporation – you’ll always be encountering challenges when it comes to self-discipline.

The question you’ll need to ask yourself is – “Why am I trying to build self-discipline?”

You have to know the end goal. Clarity will allow you to focus on what matters.

Self-discipline doesn’t exist in isolation. It has to be applied. Where you apply it will be determined by your goals.

Below, you’ll find 7 things that most people need to exercise discipline with…

Your Routine

Having a daily routine is a MUST. If you live each day as it comes and in a haphazard manner, over time, your life will be a mess. It’s inevitable.

Once you have a plan for your life, you should have a daily routine that is conducive to your goals. For example, if you’re trying to lose weight, your day might start with a 30-minute workout session (daily).

This is part of your routine, and it will help you achieve your goal. Self-discipline here will mean not skipping workouts and striving to improve on your personal bests with each session.

Your Habits

Ultimately, your habits will either make you or break you. Self-discipline is all about breaking the bad habits and replacing them with good ones.

You should do this gradually and it’ll be easier to make progress. Trying to do too much too soon can be extremely difficult.

Your Diet

It goes without saying that you are what you eat. If you’re overweight or have health issues like diabetes or hypertension, it’s crucial to watch your diet and eat what’s right for you.

Self-discipline will mean staying on track and not giving in to temptations. Changing one’s diet is one of the most difficult tasks to complete, but when done, can totally transform your health and body.

Your Exercise Regimen

As mentioned earlier, exercising is one area where self-discipline is required. While you can lose weight with a clean diet, exercise is too important and beneficial for you to neglect.

Choose an activity you enjoy doing and get as much of it as you can. Ideally, you should exercise for 30 to 45 minutes daily. Even on days when you’re not feeling like it, self-discipline will mean going through the motions.

Deadlines

A self-disciplined person meets their deadlines. This means not procrastinating on your work and having a schedule to follow.

One interesting point to note is Parkinson’s Law which states that the “work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion”.

So, setting yourself tighter deadlines will mean increasing your speed and focus on the job at hand. Remember not to sacrifice quality for speed. You should be fast and still do a good job.

Commitments

Family commitments or commitments to other people in your life should be met too. Do not sacrifice your family time just to build a business, or by the time your business is successful, you may not have a family.

Self-discipline will mean giving the people in your life the attention and time required even if you feel driven to get back to work or think that your time could be put to better use.

Finding balance in life is almost impossible for long periods of time, but self-discipline will ensure that you not drop the ball in any one part of your life while focusing on your goals.

Time Management

The way you spend your time will define who you are. Self-discipline will ensure that you spend it wisely rather than frittering it away on trivial pursuits.

We live in an age where people spend hours on social media, sacrificing precious time that could have been spent in a much better way.

Like Charles Darwin said, “A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.”

So, exercise self-discipline and manage your time judiciously. Time flies, but you’re the pilot. Make sure your destination is worth the trip.

The 7 pointers are just some of the many that you should focus on when trying to discipline yourself. If you can manage these 7 well, your life will be fantastic and rewarding.

Do start working on them today.

Why Is Self-Discipline So Difficult?

You’re all fired up and want to transform your life for the better. You’re willing to eat clean, exercise hard, wake up early to hustle and grind – just so you can be the winner you want to be.

The motivational video you watched the previous night made you feel like anything is possible, and you just need to make the right changes.

So, you make the changes. You eat right, exercise hard, and do whatever you have to… only to give up one week later because it’s just too hard. The juice doesn’t seem worth the squeeze.

You feel like you’re destined to be average or even below average because you don’t have what it takes. But is this true?

Or are you just not aware of what it really takes to transform your life?

All too often, the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. One may have the best intentions but lack the fortitude to keep going because he/she has a false perception of how tough the journey is.

You Need To Break Your Mould

Just like how the phoenix rises from the ashes, to become a ‘new you’ the old you has to die – and this is a painful process. It CANNOT be done overnight.

You’ll have to make gradual changes every day. Aiming for 1% improvement daily is more than enough to transform your life, even if it doesn’t seem like much.

You’re Fighting Yourself

When breaking the mould, it will feel like you’re fighting yourself – and you are. All change is met with resistance. If you’re broke, you’ll find that controlling your spending habits is a tough job.

If you’re overweight and trying to eat clean, you’ll have cravings for sugary foods and junk food. If you’re trying to be productive, you’ll constantly feel the urge to check your social media or binge watch Netflix shows.

You’re fighting yourself on every level because your old habits gave you enjoyment and pleasure. The new ones feel like work and your mind is trying to ‘protect you’, by making you do what’s easier for you even if it’s detrimental to your well-being in the long run.

Herein lies the contradiction – and it’s something you must be aware of on the journey towards becoming a more disciplined person. You’ll be battling yourself at every turn, but you will overcome the challenges and rise to greater heights.

Delayed Gratification Requires Patience

Self-discipline is intertwined with delayed gratification. If you’re avoiding the junk food today, it’s because you’re trying to achieve a fit and healthy body tomorrow.

If you’re working on your business while sacrificing time that could be spent on entertainment, you’re hoping to build wealth and financial freedom in future.

The common denominator to all these goals is that they take time to achieve. You’ll need to be disciplined for quite a while. It can take anywhere from 3 months to even a year to get a body that turns heads.

You’ll need patience to stay the course. This is extremely hard because the process is not fun, and you need to see progress to stay motivated.

When you’re impatient, it’ll feel like what you’re doing is not working. In reality, it is working. It just needs more time.

Motivation Fades

The author, Jim Rohn, once said, “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”

This ties in closely with the previous point. Once the initial motivation to get started begins to fade, then the process will become a grind.

You’ll need to just focus on building the habits necessary to achieve your goals and aim for 85 to 95 percent compliance. Trying to achieve 100 percent compliance is difficult because slip-ups are inevitable every now and then.

The key is to correct yourself after an error and to keep going. So, being aware that the process of developing self-discipline is a relatively long and rigorous one will make you understand that you’re in this for the long haul.

It’s a marathon and not a sprint.

Your Environment Isn’t Helping

Sometimes, you’ll need to change your environment to help stay disciplined. If you’re trying to build your business during the weekends when you’re free, you might wish to avoid hanging out with friends who like to hit the clubs and party hard.

If you’re trying to lose weight, your kitchen will need to be free of unhealthy food and snacks, so you’re not tempted to binge eat.

Struggling to beat your social media addiction? You just might need to delete your social media apps on your phone and use a social media blocking app on your computer.

Making your environment more conducive to supporting your efforts will help ease the resistance you face when trying to build self-discipline.

Take note of the pointers here and remember that all the pain and effort will be worth it in the end. Self-discipline is the key ingredient to success.

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